Watch as much as you can and then respond:
How do you, your family or your friends or people of your culture approach talking politics? Is it a fun or stressful discussion? Can it be discussed without arguing? Has it always been this way or did something happen to effect the interpersonal situation/set the tone? How do you feel about voting and being politically active as a college student? Did you know women were not allowed to vote until 1920 in this country? Watch the film Iron Jawed Angels sometime, it tells the story of females earning and fighting for the right to vote! Tell me what would have to change for you to get more interested and comfortable with talking about politics--please respect mutliple opinions within our class and keep personal political opinions about parties and candidates yo yourselves, for now anyways--Thanks--Looking forward to your voices! S
38 comments:
I hear there are 2 things you never bring up unless you are looking for an argument and thats religion and of course politics. people have their opinions and they tend to think their opinion is the only one that matters. I just got done writing a paper about civility and how people tend to not keep an open mind about different view points.
with that said, i try to not bring up politics with someone unless they have the same view as me. Most people tend to get offended when you try to discuss or rebuttal their views on that topic. Most of the time talking about politics will not end in a good discussion but it almost always ends in an argument and people hating each other. People need to learn to keep an open mind and see the opposition to their views. lets just say politics isn't the first thing i bring as dining room table talk.
Michael Drummond
I believe in never brining up religion and politics. There are too many views and ideas that in my past experiences discussions aren't always positive ones. My extended family is really into expressing their views all the time and this usually ends up in a huge debate. From this I now no longer tell people of my political views or who I chose for. I have very little interests in politics already so getting in a debate to protect my beliefs is too much for me sometimes. I choose to avoid the subject all together.-Devin Kearns
To be honest, I don't really keep up to date with politics. I was never interested in it even though I know it affects me by living in the United States and being a college student. I have registered a few times to be a voter, but never actually went out to vote. I didn't bother because I didn't even know what I would be voting for.
I know that politics is really important to some people though. There were a couple times when I went out with some friends and they began to talk about politics. This would usually end up being a huge debate. They would argue about so many aspects. I wouldn't be able to say anything. I should probably change this and try to stay up to date with whats going on in our country.
Quang Nguyen
My family and friends barely talk about politics unbless it's all over the web or a big issues. Such as when Obama became president we were stunned because this is the first black president. We also talked about whether he was good enough to become president, we never argued about it, until the topic of weed came up. The topic of weed was stressful because we were trying to convice each other. Most of the time we try to end the topic by saying something silly to lighten to atmosphere. I feel that students complain alot about politics even though majority of the college student don't vote. One of my sociology teacher said if you didn't vote don't complain.
-Tina Ho
I agree that politics and religion are 2 things we should avoid. When I came here, people talk about politics more than when I were in VN. Politics sometimes are very interesting, but most of times it just end up by arguments.
Everytime I have to talk about that, I try to calm and keep it in peace. But, some people just like children. Last month, my friends argued something about both politics and religion. It's a big argue, they started to get mad, yell at people. Look like they gonna kill each other.
However, now I learn how avoid politics subject and how to stop my friends from those pointless arguments.
Hai Tran
After reading everyone's comments before mine, it seems like everyone agrees that politics should not be discussed among families. I, on the other hand however, feel that there should be some form of a healthy political discussion in the family; it is through these discussions that a person ends up shaping their own political views.
I came from a family who is not very politically active. In defense to my family, I think that their non-participation comes from their minimal knowledge in history and background of American politics (it is slowly being remedied). We are an immigrant family.
Political discussion amongst us is rare. When a topic is brought up, it is ended very quickly because of the lack of feedback from each other. As a result, I did not have a political identity for a long time and felt uncomfortable partaking in any political discussions outside of my own house. It was not until I have taken American History and Political Science, that I began feeling comfortable in discussing politics among friends and classmates. I feel more comfortable now to ask questions and provide my own feedback. It is through friends and school where I have found my own political identity.
My family is still not as politically active as I hoped they should be. However, I have to admit that it is slowly changing. Perhaps it is the discussions from the outside being brought in that is slowly making the change. After the 2008 election, there was only one registered voter out of seven in my family and now there are 3.
-R. Cuison
My family and I do not approach politics very often. Most of it is due to the fact that we are not interested and also because we do not keep ourselves up to date with it either. Once in a while, they would talk about issues (mainly natural disaster or world issues-problems in other countries) that recently occurred and how the political leaders are taking care of the problem; and during this time, there can be arguments because one person is trying to prove the other person wrong.
I have only voted once in my life. It was when President Obama was running. I voted for him because it was something that would change US history forever. Other than that, I am not really interested in politics even though I know that it affects me indirectly. I know I should take advantage of my being able to vote because of the fact that women were not allowed to vote just 90 years ago.
I think right now many college students are too busy to keep themselves updated and interested in politics because they are too busy with their classes and many of them either have full time or part time jobs. Just getting their lives together and planning for their future takes up too much time already. I think that once I am settled with a career, I would probably be more interested in politics.
Kim Lieng Kel
I am not very active or interested in politics. I have started making an effort to vote. Even though most times it is hard to see how one vote can make a difference. I don't mind discussing politics however it is hard to get into a debate with someone on a subject I am not very passionate about or that I don't have a strong opinion on. I don't like to argue about something that I don't like but have no idea how to make it better.
Religion can also be tricky. I do however have strong opinions about this but I do not like to PUSH them on people I would rather tell them about my experiences and let them try to see my side and "discuss" rather than argue over it.
Kim Ramm
I have never been too excited about politics but, get ready for an argument if someone does not agree with you. I usually I normally try to hear all the information before making a decision. I can be persuaded to vote a certain way if you can provide me with the information to back up a statement. Politics at home are easily discussed because most often we have the same views. Catina Walker
Many of the comments state that politics and religion are topics best avoided in interpersonal relationships, however these topics are openly discussed and debated in my household. Although controversial topics, I find these subjects most interesting and enjoy discussing and even debating issues with my family, friends, and those willing to rationally debate and share point of views. My parents raised me to be open to many views, and although I wouldn't consider myself or my family particulary politically involved, my family is very vocal and we often discuss major issues and policies that arise. These discussions can sometimes turn into heated debates however nothing is taken personally,and we enjoy challenging each others beliefs, values, and judgements.
I wish that religion and politics were more openly discussed in school without the fear of offense, as these in my opinion are the most interesting and important issues.
-Chrystia Cabral
I am do not keep updated with politics because I find it not interesting. The topic of politic itself sounds stressful and people have different opinions, which will lead to disagreement. I do not register to vote because I do not know who will be the suitable leader to guide our country to help stabilize the current economy issue and resolving the unemployment rate. As a student, I am taking Political Science class this semester, so I will gain knowledge of politics. My Political Science professor told me that women were not allowed to vote until 1920, I was shocked. I knew that women were treated unequally. I would need to be more expose with politics, such us keep myself up-to-date, then I can share my own opinions with others.
Ling M. Vuong
WOW, what a great speech. I am so impressed how great speaker Mr. President Barack Obama is. I really enjoyed when he talked about education, health, and technology issues. I think that I should share some key points of this speech with my 10 years old son.
And regarding politics, I agree that is always hard to talk about politics with family and friends. When I do, I try to be objective and respectful with people. During our discussions, we try to keep on mind that it is just a personal opinion, but it is hard not to argue. In my case I prefer to be quiet if I do not know about the topic. However, I think there are some people who use their politics position to offend others and this is not a nice way to expose your thoughts.
Since I became an American Citizen, I have been voting because I believe it is the only way that I can make a difference in my community for my family. Being politically active can open your eyes to take better decisions and understand that there are some political issues affecting your own surrounding.
I would get more interested about talking politics if people show more their respect when they start arguing.
Armida G. Lee
My parents and I never really talk about politics. Its just not a big thing to us. What my parents worried about is how to make money to keep the roof over our head. I was never a big fan of politics either. Its just not my thing. I know that its good to know what is happening in my country but it just doesnt interest me. I have too much thing to worried about. I have register many time to vote. But i have never actually vote. In fact, I dont even know how to. Politics is just not in my interest. Its good to know what happens though.
-Ka Bao Lor
As much as I like learning about politics,I find talking about politics stressful.My family and I occasionally talk about new policies, things that will affect us directly, otherwise we stay away. I think it is possible to talk about them without arguing but it rarely works out that way. Even with some of my closest friends conversations turn sour because we don't see things the same way. People have always had different opinions but I think now a days people care less and less about what other people have to say, especially people outside of their family and friends.
Voting is not difficult so I don't mind. The problem is there doesn't seem to be a lot of people we can trust to do a good job. Politicians are always pushing their own agendas. They spend so much of their time arguing that they don't get very much accomplished. They aren't able to put aside their party and stand up for a good idea so how can we expect to progress?
I would be more comfortable with politics if people were more willing to listen and be more open to suggestions. We can't expect everyone to agree all the time, but we should be able to work together.
~Anmol Kaur
I really don't discuss politics with people as it really creates hostility. Most people do not know how to let people "own" their own political thinking.
I grew up in a household of a Republican father and Democratic mother. I do not recall a time when politics was ever discussed.
I tend to associate with people who believe and feel the way I do. I enjoy hearing other people's opinions as long as what they are saying is from informed reading, studying of the "situation". I have no desire to enter into political conversations with people who choose not to be informed.
I respect all people's rights to their thoughts.
Suzanne E.
Me and my family often talk politics, because we agree for the most part. If we disagree, it's mainly a matter of backing up your claim instead of just stating it. I personally like debate so politics is an interesting topic for me. The only difficulty is the sheer breadth of policies, proposals, plans, and people; to be well-informed in any specific topic requires hours of research, which frequently aren't available. Before any election, I research the people and propositions/measures coming up, including who their supporters are. For example, a proposition requiring more restrictions in forming public energy companies backed by a private company like PG&E hints at a strong ulterior motive.
Politics is one of those touchy subjects that people don't like being confronted on because, unlike matters of fact, it mainly boils down to personal opinion, and nobody wants their opinions usurped. That's why non-debate conversations about politics are better suited to indirect methods of communication where each person has time to get over emotional reactions and reflect on what's been said, what they're going to say, and research the different opinions. This avoids the frustration of being challenged on a subject you aren't well-informed or fresh on.
-Alex Carlson
When politics are brought up within my circle of family and friends, it's generally a calm discussion. My family, friends, and I all have very similar political views. When it comes to my family, being raised with them is one of the reasons why I have the beliefs I do. My family has always told me make sure I stand up for what I believe in, even if it rivals their opinions. I have strong political views on certain current issues, which have clashed with those of old friends which have resulted in no longer being friends with them (they tended to be disrespectful of my beliefs).
Before college I didn't really participate in paying attention to politics. However, when budget crises were introduced that effected me and my every day- I started to pay more attention to politics. I try my hardest now to stay involved and updated with politics.
Maggie Cabrey
My parents came from a country that wished to have a Democracy. Unfortunately, those wishes were crushed by Communism and force. My parents came to this nation on hopes of a better life for them and their children. I am proud to say... Mission complete! My father and I discuss politics as many times as possible. This nation became our savior so the least we can do for our nation is to be education on the happenings.
-Dan Phan
My family approach talking about politics as a good thing, its important to us to stay up to date on political issues. My grand pa is a minister and has a doctorate so we have a lot intellectual conversations within our family. Sometimes it could be stressful, but most times it is a fun thing to do. Most topics we talk about can be discussed without arguing, but there are always a selected few topics bring a heated debate. Ever since I started to get into politics it has been this way. As a college student I am very involve in politics. I feel that it is my duty as a citizen to know what politicians are saying and planning.
-neal Vickers
In the past I have heard that politics and religion are two topics that will most likely lead to heated discussions or arguments.
My family very rarely will argue about politics but we definitely do have a difference in opinion. Some of my family is a little more conservative and I consider myself more liberal. I know my points of view are much different then theirs and I never try to change their mind but I will express my opinion.
I think the most important thing to think about when discussing politics is that there isn't always a right or wrong, good or bad. The health care bill is a perfect example, some are for it and it will benefit them and others are completely against it. My mom has always encouraged us to think for ourselves and allow others to think for themselves, which I think has really helped me to understand and tolerate people.
I do vote. I know some people say that it doesn't matter but I feel that if I do not vote then I cannot complain and I like to complain =). I did know that women were not allowed to vote which is another reason I vote.
Vanessa Monsibaiz
By, Sasha Lopez. I watched the state of union speech at home with my dad. My dad and I have similar political views, so discussing politics in my family is extremely easy going. Although I enjoy learning about my country I don't dwell on issues I can't change. My main concern with our countries changes and downfalls is definitely our economic situation, but more specifically the effect on college tuition fees increasing.Its not only my main concern because I am a college student, but also because it will negatively affect our generations to come if continuing to make it more difficult to achieve a college degree.
Like everyone else, I try to stay away from political discussions because there is always someone who will beg to differ. I generally keep political thoughts to myself. One time I pointed out a bumper sticker to a co-worker that made fun of republicans. Without hesitation he says, "What good are dumb f-en liberals?" I was shocked, I just said to myself, "Wow!" On the other hand, I'm not a political person anyway.
Teng Xiong
I also believe that politics and religion are topics we should avoid because they are very touchy subjects. Everyone seems to have very different and strong beliefs on both, which can easily cause offense or an argument if the two people do not agree with each other on their aspects on both. It's just something that is hard to hold a good conversation over due to the fact that people can get so easily offended and upset if something is said that they do not agree with or believe in. So I personally feel that these topics should always be avoided if possible.
Lampel Ruiz
I'm not a person that is very into politics, at all. In my family only two people really talk about politics and that is my mom & brother. They are usually on opposing side of any topic and get into really heated arguments. They're both very opinionated, so it is always very stressful. My mom is very traditional, and my brother is part of the new generation; so they have a different set of morals. This is usually what causes so much discontent.
As a college student, I do not vote, and I don't think I ever will. I feel no matter what any political figure's agenda looks like, it will always come to the same conclusion. In the past presidential election, I felt that even if McCain was elected, the country would still be in the same state: completely broke. And in a country like this, money matters a lot.
I was aware that women were not given the right to vote less than a hundred years ago, and it just amazes me. It makes me realize that no matter how far the United States think we have gone, we have so much further to go. The possibilities are endless.
Leslie Aguada
By, Michael Arredondo. I do not care for politics, at all! From my mom being a republican and my dad being a democrat I was influenced by both parties. I've heard so many family arguments that I have finally had enough. I do not vote unless it is a proposition i feel will impact my life directly. Everything else I feel our voice does not matter. I honestly would rather just not talk about politics because it is a subject i am not interested and do not know much about it.
Michael Arredondo
The country I grew up in was Taiwan, and it is well known for its extremely intense political opposition between two main parties. My parents came from two backgrounds that support different parties. The first thing I know about politic is that it is a very sensitive topic in my family. It is better for me to stay in neutral opinion, so that I do not get any troubles from neither of them. Having said that, staying neutral is properly one of the best ways to learn different point of views on political issues without bias for me.
Ho Hwang
When it comes to politics, I am not much involved in keeping up to date. I know I should be, but with the crazy work and school schedules,I barely have anytime to sleep, getting involved in poltics is very far from my goal. My dad was the only one who read the news on a regular basis and informed the rest of the family with what is going on in the outside world.
Dont get me wrong, but I get very interested when other people talk about politics. I wish I had kept up on the political issues, so I can tell others about my opinions as well. During voting time, I feel very guilty for not voting because I know I have the previlege to vote, but I do not take advantage of it.
Adleen Prasad
Hi All--I agree it is a tricky dance to discuss these issues without stepping on toes--I hope you'll get more active in politics so your views are represented in our laws and policies--I struggle sometimes to stay interested too, I understand that feeling--find little bits here and there you can get interested and involved in and don't let the big picture overwhelm you! See you tomorrow gang! Oh--Teddybear--identify yourself and you can repost in direct response to my prompt, ok? Smiles--S
When I was younger and first started college, I was very uninterested in politics. It was such a boring subject for me. Now, however, that I think and plan more deeply about my education, career, health, and future, I have come to realize the importance and impact of political changes. My dad has definitely been my main influence in my life for a lot of things, including involvement in politics and influencing my political decisions. When I first began voting, I would vote exactly as my dad would. However, now that I'm older and I do more research before I vote, I may have a difference of opinion than he does. Although we never argue when we have political differences, we definitely talk and try to convince each other to change each others perspective. I feel most comfortable speaking about my political views with my family and close friends. I never discuss my political views openly with co-workers, classmates, or friends with whom I am not close with, even if I have the same political views as them. However, I am always interested in everyone's opinion and respect everyone's point of view!
Vickshna Anand
I agree with those that said politics and religon should not be bought up unless you are looking for a heated debate. Everyone has their own views and perspectives that they value and do not want them to be disrespected in anyway. Out of curiosity if you were to ask someone about their political views or religon, be broadminded about the response, because it may not be what you expected.
I personally do not indulge in political aspects. My friends and family have never mentioned something political, unless it was "BREAKING NEWS", which does not happen quite often.
saihra nagin
After watching and listening the speech of our president, I was very impressed about the politics. Honestly, politics is not the friends of me and my family due to lacking of knowledge about America's politics. Most of my family are non-speaking English citizens, and they don't very knowledgeable the politics in this country. But I do disscussed this topic with my friends somehow. YES, I agree with a lot of comments of our classmates said that the disscusion about politics always end up with argument. That's totally true because every citizen has diffenrent opinion and idea to contribute and develop our country. In the reality, most of college students are so busy with their own lives. I'm amongst of those. But being the political active is a very helpful tip to enhance their knowlege and contribution to our country in the future.
This speech was to me a means to patch up the rivalry between both democrats and republicans. Throughout the entire speech Pres. Obama utilized words such as "we", "us", "together", "united" and so forth its clear that he understands the delicate position that he is in since the democrats lost the house and how if he is going to complete his mission while in office he will need the assistance from the republican party.
Zakiyyah Hill
The McCain/Obama debate was hot around in all of my circles. It opened alot of people up to talking about politics where usually it wouldn't have been a topic of discussion. I don't talk about politics because I often find myself disagreeing with the majority, I guess that stands true to my political position in itself. So it isn't fun, there are alot of offences and disagreements because these are personal beliefs that will effect a nation. There would have to be a massive change in the way our country is conducted, in the way politicians are elected and in their income brackets.
jeffrey kelly- im not very good at politics so i just say let the elders deal with it untill it's my turn
Well my family for the most part, does not really indulge in politics. If something has happened i.e breaking news, then we do have a hesitant, short and random discussion regarding those specific political aspects. Other than labeling themselves as Dominicans, we do not tend to get into depth with matters.
ooooops that last one was mine...
saihra nagin
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